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in. I never realized how bad people are at conversation until I started using dating apps. But, for the most part, I consider myself someone who can talk about a variety of subjects, with a variety of people. Enter dating apps. Trying to talk to men on dating apps is so horrifically painful. But, I date men, so my experience is only with men; however, I think a lot of what I am saying can be applied to any gender.

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There may come a moment, while messaging someone on a dating appwhen the conversation starts to drag.

Because even if you feel an initial spark, it can be tough to maintain a convo with someone you barely know, especially through a screen. Carly Claneya d clinical psychologist, tells HelloGiggles. But if you seem to have things in common, and would like to find out more, you may want to put in a little extra effort in order to see where things go.

Who knows? You might connect over a shared love of road trips, hikes in the woods, or nights spent at home eating pizza. And it might even inspire a few date ideas, too.

For example, Hoffman says, if you share a love for a particular TV show, you could bring up the fact you read an article about the series, and then ask them what they thought about it. When you think about it, chats on a dating messenger are almost deed to be boring. So the next time you catch yourselves stuck in this loop, try jumping to the middle of a convo, instead.

To revive a boring conversation, share something you saw that day that reminded you of them, Benjamin Dalya dating coach and author, tells HelloGiggles. It can also gives a dying conversation the kick-starter it needs. It feels good to know someone is thinking about you, as they go through their day.

Did you spot a book they mentioned? Or try their favorite food in a restaurant? Let them know!

When in doubt, asking someone for their opinion is a great way to get them talking. So give their profile a scroll, and see what you can see.

This does go to show, however, how important a profile can be. To give a conversation a fresh start, try moving it from the messenger on the dating app, to texts or phone calls.

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And, in this digital world of ours, moving from an app to texting is almost like changing up the scenery, Jones says. Instead, they usually lead to a dead-end, which is the last thing you need.

Just like that, a dying conversation can transform into one that feels fun, and helps you get to know each other better. And hopefully, from there, into an equally amazing first date. Home Love 7 messages to send on dating apps, if the convo is dragging, according to experts.

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