Certain massage techniques are deed specifically for healing. They are usually more intense and limited to the usage of hands. Body to body massage is an ancient technique of erotic massage that provides a deep feeling of relaxation and allows the body to open up to sensual stimuli.
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Most FBSM sessions involve male clients and female providers so the below info makes that presumption. Because the fascists at youtube are practicing insane censorship and will not allow this video to play on any website except their own. This type of service is considered illegal in most states across the United States. Treat it as such and you will begin earning her respect as soon as you arrive.
Many women who offer FBSM are used to dealing with quite a few frogs before they find their princely clients. Start off on the right foot with her and act like a prince by being there on time. Showing her genuine respect is always a great way to start. Just make a statement. Just make a simple obvious statement.
What this does for you or the actor is immediately ground you in the moment and to your physical surroundings. It gets you out of yourself and away from your feelings of fear. What it does for the person you are meeting, the massage provider or Casting Directoris give them the opportunity to engage with you instantly on a non-threatening level. Listen and watch very carefully to how they respond to your observation. Especially if the actor and CD are two chiseled looking guys.
However, if the actor is a pretty, young blonde girl and the CD a balding, paunchy, middle-aged man with a wedding ring… not so funny. You get my drift. So make the comment specific to your surroundings. If you like the way the room is set up say that. Do you like the music playing?
Techniques of the body to body massage
A piece of art work on the wall? Say so. This can spark conversation and help you feel more relaxed. Also, giving her a personal compliment is always a nice touch. Of course, it should be genuine. The fact is, most sensual massage therapists like to groom themselves nicely for their clients.
This is one of the biggest mistakes a new or any client can make. FBSM is a passive service for the client. This is not an interactive session. Realize, that as the laws stand in most states across the country, FBSM with hands only is illegal.
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Which means, for the most part, the provider is taking a much bigger risk than you are. If she works from an apartment she most likely lives there or at least spends a fair amount of time there. FBSM is a sensual experience that includes nudity and touching by the provider. Your job is to relax, enjoy her touch and just let go.
If those services are offered consider yourself lucky. Would you like a pillow? Would you prefer no oil? Let her know. Later in the session, give more feedback. Did she address the tight muscles? Do you feel looser and calmer? Did you like the quality of her touch?
This will set a good tone for the rest of the session as you move toward the ending. Be especially mindful of kissing. Many clients often just launch into kissing various areas without warning. Respect them. If you keep pressing her, she will either avoid answering you or give in and become annoyed. Is that what you really want? It comes back to respect.
Have respect for her boundaries. If you do she may be more willing to open up in later sessions. This is YOUR time.
Make the most of it. Your therapist will have her phone off and no distractions available as they should! It will only make the good vibes and sensual touch your provider is giving you much less effective…. Especially, if she has kept her rates reasonable, do her and yourself a favor and give her a nice tip. This is a business transaction after all and a special service at that.
Be classy and reward her with some extra cash. Thank you for reading. I hope this blog has helped you to understand what FBSM [full sensual body massage] is and what to expect from a session. Dyann xoxo. Rejection Proof Move!
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