The behavior of an ex-boyfriend or girlfriend post break up can sometimes be very confusing, especially when they were the ones who decided to end the relationship.
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By Chris Seiter. If you want to understand why your ex is texting you after a breakup then there are 9 things that you need to take into. There are two main things you are going to want to take into when trying to understand why your ex boyfriend is texting you and how to respond. Knowing these things will give you a backdrop of his mindset and motivations and will help you interpret his reasoning for texting you. Take the quiz. Remember, when you are in the no contact period, your ex is going to be feeling just as vulnerable as you are.
By trishloveMay 28, in Infidelity. Hello guys. I broke up with my boyfriend almost 2 months ago.
Here’s what to do if your cheating ex reaches out
He cheated on me, and gave me a sob story. Regardless, I still broke up with him he said he also loves the other woman, ewwno matter how much it hurt me. He even sent me a long text message, wishing me happiness with whoever I will be with, and with whatever I do.
Then he told me he loves me and that he is "truly" sorry for everything he did. However, we remained in contact for 3 weeks, which I truly regret now. It didn't end up anywhere. I just kept bringing up the past and called him all the names in the book. That kept going on until I found out from a mutual friend that he's already in a relationship with the other woman. He didn't even tell me about it. So I told him that I know about it and stopped contacting him.
9 reasons for why an ex will text you after a breakup
I told him that the ten months we've been through doesn't mean anything to me anymore. He sent another long text message saying that he knows he is worthless, but the ten months we've been through means a lot to him. Another I love you, another good bye, we're both trying to let go, blah blah blah.
He even said he'll change his. Yeah right. I decided to engage in a convo with him.
Why does my ex keep contacting me when he dumped me : the real reason!
He said he misses me, still had feelings for me, and that he wants to meet up last time we saw each other was May 2. I asked him why he got in a relationship so fast. He said that he wants to forget the pain that the break up brought him, and that he doesn't want us to hope for each other anymore so we wouldn't hurt each other in the long run.
Then he mentioned that his rebound is unstable, but they're trying to work on it. Turns out the other woman isn't as nice as he thought she was. What losers. The conversation left me concluding that he has no idea what he wants. After that I decided to cut all contact with him. I realized that I'm not handling this well and that the immature bickering is just making me look like a clown.
Aside from that, I just want to move on and put everything in the past. I told him that, he agreed and wished me well. Didn't reply.
The night after that he texted again. I didn't reply to all those either. An hour later he texted, "I love you. I miss you. Good night. I have no idea what to do now. This is leaving me confused. What the hell does this guy want? Why does he keep texting me now that I'm leaving him alone? He's making it harder for me to maintain NC.
I need your help on this guys. I need you to inspire me to continue ignoring this guy! Because all he's doing as of the moment is giving me hope that he'll change his mind! Don't fall for this guys playerish antics.
OP, it doesn't matter what he wants. What it means is he snuck off to chase some fresh nookie with a new girl, and she has something hot he really wants, but at the same time, he wants you and your familiarity and the things about you he liked. So he wants to hang onto both of you at the same time.
Or it could be as simple as he wants to make sure he has a constant supply of attention! And if this woman doesn't work out, he wants to leap right back into your bed or maybe both of your beds at the same time. Bottom line is he's doesn't want a normal, faithful committed relationship.
He cheated on you with her, and now he's trying to cheat on her with you. This isn't a guy you can build a good relationship with so i'd just cut him off and let him deal with the consequences of his cheating! He wanted her, he's got her, but he doesn't get to keep you too!
What he wants, is to have his cake and eat it too. He made his choice, now it's his job to face the consequences without you being there to back him up. I would end this now, as there's no future with this guy. If you can block hisdo it.
If you can make his shoot to your spam folder, make it so. If you can avoid him in real life, avoid him.
LOL I doubt my cheating exes would contact me. That would be funny if they did and then I will have to post my story. It's annoying bc he called at night while I was sleeping and I had to literally register in my mind who it was, cos it was so random.
What do i do if my ex keeps contacting me?
You won't like it trust me. But I guess there's a bit of satisfaction in knowing they're still trying to seek an ego boost from their ex gf lol.
Thank you so much for your replies guys. This is devastating me really.
I'm just kinda sad that this is happening. I can't imagine him being this deceptive. Maybe he's just too young? He's Or maybe he really is nuts and it's just now that the truth came out.
Dear coleen: i dumped him for cheating but now he keeps texting and calling
Naw, you need a guy who likes being with you and knows what he wants and needs. You'll find him. It might take a while since he didn't give you a proper direction to find him. He craves attention and that's why he cheated, he's contacting you now cos he's scared that you'll finally see him for the loser he is and he's trying as hard as he can to 'sweet talk' you into believing his lies. Block him. I blocked the guy but ultimately had to change my cos he was contacting with other s and I just got fed up.
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