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Sometimes, you meet someone, and you just click. You feel like you've been besties your entire life and honestly can't believe there was a time when you didn't even know they existed. And then, there's those other relationships that take a little more work—i.
If you are in a bad mood, do you prefer to be left alone or have someone to cheer you up? What are your thoughts on online dating or tinder? If you had the ability to erase something that you did in the past, what would it be? If I asked you at age 5 what you wanted to be when you grew up, what would you say? If you could take us anywhere in the world right now, where would you take us? If you could do one thing without suffering the consequences, what would you do?
Is there something out there, a thought, an idea, a current event, or a fear that you find deeply unsettling? What would you consider to be your deepest fear?
This question can be really telling of the depth or lack thereof of a person. Is there an activity that calms you?
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A place or a thing that makes you feel at ease? Do you have a favorite book? A line in a piece of literature?
A poem? Why do you relate to it? Can you remember a time in your life you felt the most alive? Tell me everything about that memory.
When have you felt like you were living life to the fullest? Have you always had the same political beliefs? Is there something that impacted them?
What has been the biggest change you ever made that made you the most proud of yourself? Think about the people you love the most in your life, what do you do for them? Is home for you a place or a feeling?
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Describe that place or describe that feeling. If you could be anywhere other than where you are right now, where would you be and what would you be looking at? Do you believe more in fate or that we are the creators of our own destinies because we are governed by free will? What would be your thought process if you were presented with irrefutable evidence that a god did exist? If you could have the option of eradicating pain from your life would you choose to do so? Why or why not? Do you believe yourself to be truly free? If so, why? If not, what is holding you back? What was your father or mother like at home?
How does he or she act different outside of family? If you were given a choice to choose your manner of death, how would you die? Pick two out of physical chemistry, lifestyle compatibility, emotional compatibility and intellectual compatibility.
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If you were forced to vote for one the biggest dictators of history, Hitler, Mussolini, Mugabe, Mao, Saddam or Stalinwhich one would you pick and why? If you could have any animal in the world as a pet, what would it be and why? If you were given a chance to explore the oceans, go to outer space or visit 50 different countries, which one you choose and why? Out of the negative emotions of greed, anger, jealousy and hate, which one would you say affects you the most? Out of the positive emotions of compassion, positivity, enthusiasm and initiative, which one is your biggest strength?
If you could be President of your country for an hour, what is the one thing that you would change?
If you were given a choice to turn into a zombie or to die, which would you pick? If you had to pick one, what is the most important value you would teach your children? Honesty, Kindness or Courage? Name one really surprising thing that set your heart pumping and gave you an adrenaline rush.
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Tell me about the time you were so embarrassed in love, you wished you could disappear right there and then. Tell me about your biggest love regret that made you wish you could turn back time?
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