Because women need and desire emotional and physical investment from great men in order to feel secure, safe and happy. The biggest issue is that most women have no idea about the right things to focus on, in order to get the wife status and the devotion that they desire. Some of them are bad reasons.
After writing my last post on husband materialI got a lot of requests from my male readers to write a post on wife material — how to find it, attract it, and keep it. Our emotions are what connect us all.
To be honest, it sounds terribly depressing. Thankfully, much has changed since then. I don't mean any kind of romantic ideal, but like, proper love, where you love them so much that even when you're mid-argument and super angry you still make sure they take an umbrella to work because it might rain.
Any person who loves you that much in equal measure, and doesn't mind risking a sex-related hip fracture when you're both in your 70s is definitely marriage material. I don't want a fan or sycophant, nor do I want an adversary. The ideal woman will have an understanding of my strengths and weaknesses and exploit them not to injure me, but to make me better.
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She would also have an insatiable intellectual curiosity and big boobs. But in all seriousness, I don't know that we need to have the perfect woman to qualify as marriage material.
I know I don't. All I need is that person who makes the concept of being with anyone else an exercise in idiocy. That's the most important thing a woman a can have if I were to want to marry her.
Of course I'd want her to be kind, genuine, adventurous and someone with whom I'd like to share my life but above all is sense of humor. Laughing and loving together is what makes a long-lasting relationship.
They Love Them! I swear. That being said, wife material for me is a woman who can cook and cook well, like French pastry type well.
Not because I want her in the kitchen but because I can't cook to save my life but eating is a passion of mine. If her passion is to cook and mine is to eat then we can't lose. I'd like to say once again that this isn't me giving into gender stereotypes.
Cooking and eating together is sexy. They fought too often and I never saw them, not once, show any sort of affection toward each other. Because of that, a woman who is affectionate and loving is someone with whom I want to grow old with.
What is wife material?
I want them to know we love each other and they were born from that love. And by 'her own life' I mean: her own career, her own set of friends, her own independent streak, her own dreams, and her own bunch of at least vinyl records. This would certainly be a fair thing for a woman to want in a potential husband too, by the way.
But if she's wife material she'll keep anything demeaning or embarrassing private. It's so simple, but speaks to a level of consideration you don't always get in some people who might feel a little too entitled to your chivalry. in.
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YourTango Experts. Amanda Chatel.
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