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Signs his ex is jealous of you

Your partner's ex. Yes, her.

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People often think that the end of a relationship means that the feelings disappear, and that the 2 people that had been together are now strangers to one another that have no trouble whatsoever ignoring each other. There are some couples that continue to sleep together after the breakup, there are some people that start working on trying to get their ex back, and other couples that remain good friends.

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You thought that the past was behind you, but then your ex pops up acting like he's still with you. Whether he has a never-ending stream of questions about your new guy, makes jokes at your boyfriend's expense or is just constantly around, knowing if he's jealous of your current relationship can help you deal with the situation.

When an ex idealizes the past, chances are she is wishing she had you back.

While the cause of her picture-perfect view of your relationship may include her own sadness or that her life isn't going as she thinks it should, it may also include jealousy over your new love. Striking up nostalgic conversations about past "awesome times" to the exclusion of the problem periods the two of you shared may al a pang of jealousy on her part.

For example, she may say something like, "Remember how much fun we had going ice skating together? You're at a party, school dance or other social gathering with your new guy when your ex walks in. He glances over in your direction, then he for the closest attractive girl.

When he knows that he's in your view, he starts dramatically flirting with her. Making sure that you take note of his fiercely flirtatious ways indicates that he may be jealous of your new relationship.

Competitive flirting is an indirect way the green-eyed monster can come out, according to psychologist Suzanne Phillips in the Psych Central article, "Understanding Jealousy in Your Relationship. During a friendly conversation with your ex, she soddenly exclaims, "I saw that outfit your new girlfriend wore to the football game.

Wow, I didn't know shorts could get any shorter.

Probably not, but she is most likely jealous of your new relationship. Making digs at your new love's expense doesn't indicate that she's suddenly become a mean girl. Instead, it als her jealousy. Your ex didn't text you dozens of times a day when the two of you were together, but now he is over-communicating with you.

If he starts checking in on you, wanting to talk all of the time or interrupting your date nights with an ill-timed phone call, you're seeing his jealous side. Even though he knows that you've moved on, his constant contact is a way to re-insert himself into your life and possibly push your new guy out.

Based in Pittsburgh, Erica Loop has been writing education, child development and parenting articles since She has a Master of Science in applied developmental psychology from the University of Pittsburgh's School of Education. Regardless of how old we are, we never stop learning.

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